My name is Anabelle, and my story started before I was even born. My mother was pregnant with me while her husband dumped her, and chased after his secretary.

It was only a few weeks before the due date, my mother found out he had an affair. She was very sad and upset beyond words. She was all alone in this world, and my father was the only family she had. She felt completely abandoned and terrified.

While pregnant with me she searched all over town for him. She needed him to be nearby, in case she had to go into labor. Well luckily, a neighbor knew of this ordeal, and they offered help to her. 

The day I was born my father wasn’t there, and up until I was 13 years old I only saw him briefly for short visits and holidays. He died when I was 13th. I grew up without a father, was raised by my grandmother (my father’s mother)

To the outside world, this probably isn’t something too special. I was pretty happy growing up, and my grandmother loved and cared for me as much as she could.

I did not realize being abandoned by my father could have a tremendously adverse effect in my life, as it did.
In my 30’s everything was fine work-wise, but in a relationship, I started to see some patterns emerging. Nobody was good enough for me. I also had this insane jealousy whenever my lover came into contact with any female. I would immediately cut off the relationship, and run away from my fear and discomfort.

When I met my soul mate, the same thing happened. During our six months together, I ran away from him six times. Each time this wonderful man endured tremendous grievances and abandonment from me to the point where he could not handle it anymore. He decided to leave me for good.

At this time I talked to Kara about it and decided to have four sessions with her. She helped me instantly, the very first session. I felt whole again, I could not believe it! The insecurity was gone. Though my lover left me, I did not feel too much remorse. I was sad but not heartbroken like before. 

I also noticed I was totally at peace when he was out to dinner dates with other female friends. I now trust him.

Words could not describe the freedom this gave me. Imagine you are no longer tortured by jealousies at anyone, without just cause.

My self-worth and self-esteem skyrocketed along with this work from Kara. I am no longer allowing people to take me for granted or mistreat me. I also am no longer allowing any form of abuse from anyone. My money making ventures are fantastic, and money has begun to come in on schedule. 

In short,

I am totally at peace with myself and with the people in my life. I can enjoy our relationship with ease and love. I do cry now and again remembering what I did to my beautiful soulmate. I will never do it to him or anyone else again.

I am not sure at this point whether our relationship can be salvaged, after so much abuse due to my insecurities. However, I have faith that no matter what I’ve done, Because in his fantastic way he forced me to find Kara and get help from her.

I want to tell you this – please find ways to pay for your sessions with her. You deserve to have a happy love life and rewarding relationship, and your significant others deserve it too. Don’t let your childhood problems ruin your life.

Anabelle